Her Life in her Own Words By Gladys Van Horn
Transcribed by Elaine Swan
I was born Feb.6,1898 on a Sunday in a house not far
from the Des Moines River. My brother John Wesley was 2 years older and loved to
wander down to the river so they moved to a house on the East side of the
Capitol. As a child we children played on the Capitol Steps and the lawn around
it. When I was 4 years old Bell Day came to live with us, she was my
fathers first cousin. Mother worked with my father in his jewelry store so Bell
became a second mother to us children. There were 5 little ones. Bell was
the dearest lady.
Wesley the oldest, then myself, then Lucille, then
Harry Eldon and Mildred Nevada the youngest. To me Mildred was my doll.I loved
to care for her. Her hair was blond it set her beautiful face off with her
velvet brown eyes and fair skin. Her hair was color of gold it shone on
her little dimpled hands and cheeks. How I loved and adored her.
My sister Dorothy Lucille was 3 years younger than I.
She was small and had croup alot. She was very loved and we all loved to
cater to her due to her smallness. She had brown hair brown eyes and was very
cute. She loved to play piano. She went to Drake University in music department.
My brother John Wesley was a dear brother he was 2
years older than me. He went over on the first ship to Europe to fight in WW1.He
became assistant to the doctors in the field hospitals. He was a brave young man
He worked along with doctors until war ended. He came back but his life was not
good. He came home after a long hospital stay in vets hospital. He married had
one son who went in Air Force in WW2. He was shot down and killed. His name was
Francis Wesley.
My son Arthur Donald was killed in second world
war on destroyer USS Jarvis. He is buried at sea with ship.
My younger brother Harry Eldon was a mechanic for the
government and worked on government planes. He lived with mother until his
passing. He died shortly after.
As a young girl I was blond with blue eyes now in my
senior years my hair is brown mixed with white.
Runnaway
The house on the East side was on 16th Grand Ave. I
remember it well. When I was 2 or 3 years old I wandered off somehow I was found
and returned home and put to bed and was happy. I had a good time wandering thru
fields of lovely wild roses, buttercups, chasing butterflys with never a worry.
Next morning I was dressed fed my doll was put on the porch with a few toys then
the surprise my father came out with a long rope. He tied it around me saying
you can play now when you have it on. You will wear it three days and promise
never to leave the yard again. I was too ashamed to cry or let anyone see me. I
tried to hide the rope so laid face down in the grass. Third day I grew up
and never left the yard again. They knew I could be trusted.
I can remember my mother so sick throat swelled shut
with fever along with my baby brother both were given up by doctors telling my
father they would die. Both had scarlett fever. I was crying as I didnt want my
mother to die. My father said they will not die. Im getting a doctor [magnetic
they called him] They said it wont help. He came in rolled up his sleeves rubbed
his hands together fire sparks flew out he placed his hands on mothers head and
neck and also on my baby brothers He gave them some medicine. Two days
later both were swallowing and fever was gone. He stayed with us until both were
well. How I wish I could see this man and thank him. He had to be a man of God.
He prayed each time.
Accident on teachers desk.
While living in the house at 16th Grand Ave I started
school when 4 years old. It was Lucas School. I could read and wanted to go
anyway. My mother got up late first day of school and never gave me time to use
bathroom. I was 2 years younger than all the other first graders. They towered
over me. I had long curls and must have been cute as they carried me to one room
with older kids and stood me up on teachers desk so the children could draw me.
After awhile I needed to go to bathroom. I was too ashamed to ask as teacher
kept calling me precious a little darling. Some water started to trinkle down
I ran into the hall. The teacher caught me and kissed me and put dry undies on
me. She lectured the kids so no one ever laughed at me. She showed me where
toilets were. A couple of kids drew my picture with trinkles coming down my
mother kept them for awhile. Those days no one realized a 3 or 4 years old was
too young to learn so much in one day.
After Mildred was born Grandma was there always when a new baby came. She called
me in to see my baby sister. How happy I was as I wanted a sister so bad not a
brother. Grandma helped me put some sugar lumps in the window for the stork to
see so he would bring a little sister. I ran so fast to see her. I took one good
look then said oh no its the wrong baby. Please send her back. Its a negro
baby. Someone else got our baby girl. But grandma said its your own baby sister.
I ran next door to Mrs Mundens house and cried and cried. I said Mrs Munden I
got a negro sister. She ran over to see herself and came back and said she
is a beautiful baby a little pinkink red like most new babies. In a couple of
weeks she will be white and she was as she was blond and fair.
From there we moved to 2700 Capitol Ave not far from
the state fair grounds. We could also see the Gold dome of the capitol from the
street in front. It was here Belle Day came to live with us.I tell you she
became a second mother to us. She cared for us when mother would go with father
to the jewely store each day. Mother needed to get away from us children.
My mother and father were so much in love. Father always took her shopping for
clothes. He dressed her like a Queen. She wore silk and taffeta dresses. Also
beautiful hats of velvet with large white plumes. She was beautiful. I used to
reach out to touch her skirts as they passed they would russle and she smelled
like a flower so sweet. Father had her always so beautiful with beautiful
jewelry and I was so proud of both of my parents. We children had parents
who loved us and each other. We never worried as we felt so secure. We had
everything as well as Bell whom we loved and she became part of our family
Gypsies
Here in the early 1900's there were mostly dirt roads
in front with no paving. We little girls would have a long big rope, two
would take an end and turn it others would jump in soon they went higher and
higher and higher. I liked this. I was only 6 or 7 years old then. Id jump
higher and higher no one could jump me or out run me. Not many toys around those
days so we practiced running up the dirt road. Everybody wanted to run to win as
holidays there was always a foot race and money to win. It was up this road one
of us would see the gypsies coming, Always a two wheel covered cart hauled by an
old horse. Gypsies wore bright red full long skirts heads tied with red bandanas
handkercheifs The brass bracelets they wore clang as they grew closer. Terrible
stories were told about them as they stole everything even children. We would
grab everything we could and run for the house, lock the barn and house doors
and windows. We just woundnt go to the door, It really was exciting but
not pleasant to anyone when they were around. With Bell with us we knew we were
safe. When they would look or knock on the window. Bell would shake the rolling
pin at them. They would leave fast. Bell loved to attend the pie socials at the
church each month. She always took me on her days off and we both loved cherry
or blackberry pie. So we both ate plenty of pie. We never missed a pie social.
Those days there were no restaurants, hamburger places like today. People had
fun at the church socials. Strawberry cake or in winter fresh oyster stew with
little crackers. There were no bakeries or laundrimats and few cars, just horses
and buggies.
We had Bess our horse so sweet and faithful a good
horse to drive she never would run away. We had a two seated buggy with a
fringe all around the top. Every Sunday afternoon father and mother took
us all for a ride down to the river where all the families tied their horses up
to listen to a band play. We played on the grass and ate popcorn. And then
we drove home not far to go home where we had a light supper. Things were
so peaceful. But as I look back and realize how hard people slaved those days
people grew old fast and looked old too. Its better today electric stoves cars
to ride in. Only one fault too many people caused it too many babies,i t cruel
to be crowded out of childhood in a too overcrowded world.
Fight With Jennie Shipley
When I was 11 or 12 years old we moved from Des Moines
to Rippey, Iowa where my my Aunt Mollie lived there. She was not well so mother
begged father to move to Rippey and my dad bought the only grocery store in town
and added a jewelry and optical store by it.I did not want to leave Des Moines
and my friends but we did what we were told to do. Bell Day returned to her home
We were shampooed, bathed, dressed with new clothes before leaving. My hair was
brushed into long curls down my shoulders It had a light blue ribbon tied on my
curls. I wore white long stockings a white trimmed dress with a blue sash.
I wore a new pair of the cutest baby doll patent slippers. I remember this
well as I was so proud of my new clothes. Any way we got off the train at Rippey
to walk to the store where father was. I guess every girl in town was at the
depot to meet the train. As we started to walk up the sidewalk the girls got
behind me calling me city kid, pulling my hair, kicking dirt on me Mother
said ignore them You dont fight girls just keep walking I got too much that last
kick did it. I turned toward the overgrown girl and I said, meet me in the
alley back of the store as soon as we can change we will talk it out. I changed
tied my hair up with a towel and while mother was enjoying seeing father and
Aunt Molly I went to talk it over As I got outside Jenny Shipley the big
girl who was the doctors daughter and my age but bigger by far She gave me a
kick and seemed to want to show off in front of the other girls I some how let
her have it good. I pulled her hair so hard and she went down as I punched her
in the nose she begged me to quit it Some one must have seen us and took us both
by the arms and asked us to be friends. Somehow Jenny must of liked me as
we were like sisters. Everywhere Jenny was I was so this is one friend I can
never forget. While living here a short time my mother and her sister
Mollie spent every day together They were so close and I know how my father
missed Des Moines but he never complained. Rippey is a small town a flat prarie
town. That winter was a bad one one blizzard after another. On waking up that
morning the house felt warmer than usual Our bldg was buried in in snow to the
roof. We had to dig a tunnel to the shed to get coal and wood in. We were
warned of snow coming so Mollies famlies moved in with us along with many church
friends, we had lots of food as we had the only grocery store downstairs at
night father would make good hot fresh oyster soup for all of us. We were lucky
as so many suffered thro this winter here.
Smallpox
When spring finally came the word of small pox
epidemic. Wesley came down sick first then everyone else caught it. Dr.Shipley
left town with his family scared to death. Here we were with no doctor, everyone
was so sick, big sores, all over them. They were as red as fire. Father had the
smallpox the year before. So he got ahold of Dr.Lovejoy someway and he
came and quarantined the store as well as our own place. I never will forget how
he looked coming in the back door wearing a long black rubber raincoat rubber
boots and cap all black mask and gloves He looked at them left medicine and told
father what to do I helped the girls with medicine and helped sponge their
bodies of fever as best I could as I was only 9 years old. After 2
months they got well but so weak. I never got it the doctor was determined for
me to get it as he did not want to take off the quarantine sign down and I
turned loose and came down with it. Each day he looked my body over for a
pimple. I got so tired of being locked in so one day I crawled out the window
onto the front porch looking down and I shook the throw rugs and it was great
fun to see the people run for their life for fear a germ would fall on them.
Next day here comes Dr.Lovejoy he filed the bathtub with hot water and put black
medicine in it it stunk like a skunk. He made me strip off my mother watching
and laid me down in it. I really got my babtism from the devil and my body
turned red. Then he put a large black rock around my neck to wear It was
called an assphhidia bag to keep me free of germs. Then the sign came down. I
was free at last For awhile no one wanted to play with me but soon I was
one of the kids in town. But after all this we decided prairie towns were not
for us. We came back to the city of Des Moines our real home and love. I
graduated from West High School in 1915. I went to work in the telephone office.
I went to school to learn the switchboard and I learned every factor of the
switchboard as well as reading them. First I learned the A board next the
B board between connecting cords between other telephone offices in Des Moines.
Then I learned the Hospital Boards between line men and out of order phone
change and out boards to Long Distance Boards it was exciting and I loved it.I
became a supervisor and a chief operator when I was 17 years old.T he wages I
earned were tremendous I came home on payday and paid my board to mother along
with several big bills to do as she wanted to do so with it.I loved to
look nice and I worked in lovely suits wore beautiful clothes and
white kid gloves. I sang in our church choir and I enjoyed living at home with
my family and did not ever want to leave Somehow life changes it does not have
to if one does not listen to other people. While attending the Methodist Church
one Sunday morning the minister announced we had a visitor a Mr. Axel Blackrud
who was a contractor from Seattle,Washington. He came here to put up the
Ford Bldg. He was a handsome man 30 years of age 5 feet 11 inches tall dressed
immaculately a neat suit a gorgeous smile as my father shook his hand he asked
my father who the young lady was with him so we were introduced they invited him
to dinner and he was delighted. They all liked him so much. As for me I
was not impressed as I could see he was trying so hard to get acquainted with
me. Anyway I ignored him and he kept coming to see mother and dad. Finally he
began sending large boxes of red long stemed roses along with large boxes of
candy. I did like him but did not want to be pushed into a marriage as I was
content to be me as I was. Axel was a brillant man went through college and
could draw a blueprint so easy. He put a office bldg up hired foremen and
carpenters. Up went a big Ford Plant.It took several months to complete due to
weather condtions. I was proud to be seen with Axel.He was such a good man of
character and was a good father to his little ones as well as a husband who
loved me so. God called him home in 1922 thru an operation at General Hospital
in Seattle. Donald was 3 and a half years old and Doris was 2 Jan 10th. He died
Jan 20th.
The Blizzard and snow plow that saved me..
I must write about Bell Day, she came to live with us
when I was 5 years old. She cared for us five children, bathed us and made
us home made cookies and bread and beautiful cakes and meals each day she
prepared for our family. I knew I loved her alot no body told me she was my
father's first cousin, [daughter of Austin Day and Martha Van Horn] until years
later when I asked about her. Winter nights I crawled up to her in bed, she kept
me covered and I took it for granted she would always be there. One day I came
home from school and there was no Bell Day I cried and cried for her. but in her
place was my Aunt May mothers youngest sister. Mother took her in to help but
they soon realized there was no one like Belle..Aunt May was only 18 and could
do nothing and couldnt handle the work. Bell loved housework and enjoyed our
home. Whenever the Christian church gave a social she would dress me pretty and
we would catch a city bus and what good times we had. Pies socials were my
favorites. Winters were terrible in Iowa one never knew when a blizzard would
strike us. Well I remember one day my older brother was sick so she wrapped me
up well, tied a scarf around my face and handed me my lunch pail and I went to
school. I had to walk thru fields 5 miles if I took a short cut it
was 2 and a half miles thru the fields. School was until 4 p.m. During school it
started to snow. It seemed to get worse so school was let out. I was about
6 years old. I walked and walked my feet felt so heavy I started to cry my tears
froze into my face finally I felt sleepy and just sat down on the deep snow
to rest a snow plow was headed towards me snow was so deep now somehow the man
saw me and carried me to the snow plow and brought me to the first house we came
to and told the lady to keep me until the blizzard was over and somehow he got
the word to Belle I was safe and in this ladies house the lady unwrapped me
rubbed my feet and hands wrapped me in warm blanketts and fed me warm soup my
face was almost frozen I was so lucky Belle wrapped me warm with a wool scarf
over my face. Living in Iowa with the blizzards and tornados is very dangerous
country. I dont need a picture of Belle Day as I can vision her in my mind I
still miss her She was like an angel on earth.
Pig Story
When I was a small child my grandparents took me
to visit a large farm in Linden,Iowa to visit my Aunt Bertha and Uncle Ivyl
Harris.I had never been to a farm before I was a city girl living in Des
Moines,Iowa I watched my uncle milk the cows and he asked me if I
liked milk I said oh yes he then squirted milk in my open mouth. He really
enjoyed this as he liked children. I looked around and saw a fence around some
pigs and what caught my eyes was some small baby pigs nursing their mother
pig. I screamed out with joy please let me have one little pig to my joy they
reached in and handed me one the softest warmest little baby pig with a little
pink stomach. I held it close to me.I kissed it and said you are my baby pig and
are going home with me. hen Aunt Bertha said she is all yours but she must stay
here to nurse her mother. But you can come back next summer and she will be here
for you.I counted the months as they passed and the next summer we again
went to to visit in Linden,Iowa at grandmas and the farm. I ran out to see my
baby pig. Aunt Bertha said here they are growed up and my baby pig weighed
several hundred pounds. I will never forget my little pig and my disappointment
as I thought they were playing tricks on me my baby pig had to be somewhere I
looked and Looked and looked I finally gave up and cried and cried and I never
liked my Aunt and Uncle anymore.
Barnum and Bailey Circus
In the summer of 1906 I was 8 years old . My aunt
Maud was then a young housewife living in a partically built home they
were building with out side plumbing. Those early years houses were far apart.
Aunt Maud had no neighbors close. She had fields all around her in East Des
Moines. Every summer the circus came to Des Moines and put up a big tent
on the fairgrounds. They used the water pumps watering the animals the
clotheslines to hang up their laundry so Aunt Maud knew these circus
pretty well in return we were given free passes to everything even invited to
enjoy meals with them. My brother Wesley always got a job of watering the
elephants which he loved to do. To me the most exciting thing was the big
parade through the city streets with hundreds of people staring at the
beautifully dressed animals with velvet covers of red and gold trimmed.
There was always a brass band with red velvet jackets on the men. I loved
everything about the circus people and their life when I was 8 years old. I
watched everything they were doing as they began lining up to march I
looked up on the seat on top of the elephant when the circus people asked
my Aunt if I could sit on the seat on top of the elephant. My aunt
gave permission so up I was lifted and I felt like a little princess looking
down. at the crowds on each side staring up at us when I heard a scream
from my mother. Look its Gladys she was so humilated as to her were like show
people and I must have shocked her. When I did get home the next dayI was
scolded But Im still happy to this day I did it and I know mother and our family
enjoyed free tickets.
False Rumors of End of The World
I can remember well the summer of 1910 some rumor got
around the end of the world would be in 24 hours so if you own jewels and money
you could not enter heaven you would go to hell. Churches and people went crazy
on their knees asking for forgiveness., money was burned along with
valuables Neighbors and relatives, got together sat up to see the sky. Children
cried as it frightened them. My father told us it was crazy no one knew
when the end would come. He told so many to keep their possessions not to
believe this. Somehow I believed my father he was a good man and a Methodist.
Anyway I sat with mother and cousins on the porch until morning came at
last nothing happened they way they said it would they said it would still
happen Saturday. They waited and prayed. After a couple of days they realized it
was a false rumor. Their money was gone they had nothing. Father never said I
told you so. He was kind and we still have possessions.
Tent Revival Meetings Pentecostal
Those early days was revival days. Every summer large
tents were put up in the parks crowds came camped on the grass and the
preachers would shout and people cried as it frightened the children. But it was
exciting and something to do as the music was very nice to listen to and one day
Billy Sunday came to Iowa. A black long tabernacle was put up. Every church of
all faiths sent their choirs to sing. I was in a Methodist choir. Billy Sunday
stood up on a platform he preached hell and damination. I can still hear him and
those words. He pounded his fists on the pulpit doors of the
building and drunks would run in crying save me,save me. The floors were full of
sinners one man came in with a policeman trying to grab Billy Sunday Billy
Sunday let out a yell leave that man alone he wants to be saved how about you
are you ready for heaven if you are a sinner get on your knees. The policeman
fell to the floor. I got so nervous I could not do my schoolwork. So I stayed
home Pentecostals were everywhere those days.
Fourth Of July Race
When I was 11 years old in Sheldon,Iowa a lovely Dutch
town a very small city. We were there a short time it was in northern Iowa
close to Minnesota and very cold. That Sunday before the 4th f July arrived
the young children were told a celebration would be held in the big park in town
and a foot race would be held for 12 to 14 years and a prize of a dollar
to the winner. That really excited me each day I practiced running up the dirt
roads. I was determined to win that race.I so wanted that dollar for rides
on the merry go round and ice cream cones. Our family was going we planned a
picnic dinner in the park. We talked and talked about it. My Aunt
and Uncle came to visit also Grandma and Grandpa Hardenbrook. I was so very very
happy I got up early that morning when low and behold there was a lady and her
daughter at the door asking mother to take me with her and who had a
daughter about my age and they wanted me to attend a picnic at their church.I t
was 5 miles to their country church. Mother hated to refuse her so here I go my
heart was broken but I watched how the road went as the horse and buggy rode
along. We got there and played a little and as soon as I could I saw my chance I
ran like a deer for the corn field it hid me from the road I ran all the way
back and got to the park just as the race started my feet were hurting, my hair
was messed up.I kicked my shoes off knelt down and when they yelled go I flew
fast my feet hardly hit the ground I did it I yelled out I won! I won! I cried
out with joy as the silver dollar was put in my grubby little hand. Then
here was my mother she began scolding me for disobeying her then my father spoke
up he said she obeyed you she did go to country church and she obeyed me
as I gave her permission to be here at park to be in the race so he told me to
go to our house clean up rest a little, and back to the park to spend my silver
dollar. Those days a dollar was worth alot.
Happy Days My childhood at East Des Moines at 2700 Capitol
Father bought this old comfortable house for the
special reason with five small children there was a acre of yard shade
trees,5 bedrooms and room for a horse and a two seated buggy. There was a
wonderful porch extending clear around the front of the house. There was a old
wagon in back and a barn for our horse Bess. Bell Day came to live with us in
this house so you see it held many happy memories. Those days there was no
television, radio, and phones were very few, somehow we never missed them.
Just being close famlies and games to play life was pure happiness .I
still remember the rains in Iowa first the lightening then the thunder overhead
everyone ran for shelter for Iowa when it rained it came down in buckets like a
flood. If you never saw a rainbow you should visit one in Iowa It curves around
in the sky in the most beautiful vivid colors of orange,red and purple it was so
exciting to see this beautiful rainbow. We children ran in the back
yard where the ditch was filled with water. We had made a raft so into the
water we drug it everyone got aboard and we played a game of being
on a big ship on the ocean what fun we ha d.Then we could wade barefoot and Bell
would dry our clothes and mother never knew we were barefooted or dirty as we
were clean when mother came. home. Some days we all climbed up into the big hay
wagon and played like we were in a covered wagon going to grandmas homestead in
Iowa We little girls had our dolls for babies and the boys would play Indians it
was real exciting when the boys got rough Belle would come out and send
the boys home and Wesley to his room. In front of the house was a dirt road
those days most roads were dirt. This was perfect for running races or jumping
rope. George lived across the road an only child and his mother
seemed to idealize him. He was so clean, he didnt know how to get dirty. He
never was allowed to play with boys. They might hurt him his mother always said.
Each morning he was there to play jacks on my porch or play dolls. I really
wanted no part of him. I loved rope jumping so he would watch we little
girls running races and jumping rope. Also at the end of the block was a coal
miners family. There was a little brown haired girl 8 years old always
watching we children play this one beautiful day she asked her mother
to please wheel her close to us so she could visit us a and jumping and
see us jump rope. While we were laughing and jumping with a long rope all
of a sudden this little girl someway got out of the chairs tried to
jump rope then fell to the ground. and in no time at all she died. We children
cried and we all thought somehow we were to blame. You see little May Gorman
had a serious heart condition. Somehow we never wanted to jump rope again, Those
days when someone died they kept them at home until they were buried. There were
no funeral parlors. What was so tragic we were asked to be dressed in white. Six
of us little girls and sit around the little white casket on chairs during the
funeral. Each of us little girls had shed so many tears now as we looked at
each other some were crying and some were smiling. We were all
scared and so nervous When it was over it took a long long
time for any of us children to sleep or to be happy again. Father immediately
said we had better move from this place so we did go to Rippey, Iowa, I
believe no child should attend funeral. Things never stay the same which
is sad going back to Iowa and seeing the places I lived here was the same house
porch still on it but it looked broken down in need of repairs. On both sides of
the street there was one house against the other no yards to play in
yes the street was paved the shade trees were gone and it was like a strange
place. We are becoming over crowded with people. I wonder if we
should stop people coming here to be citizens. Then our true Americans
could be happy. and have jobs again. Indians could be treated better and our own
people would have a chance of a better life and security.
The Pink Dress
When I was 4 years old we lived next door to a Jewish
family a young lady and a mother to a 2 year old girl. I would sometimes
wander over to play with the little girl with dark curly hair and I loved this
family they always welcomed me with a hug and a kiss. Well one day the
lady asked me if I had a wish for something what would it be. I knew exactly
what I wanted so much, a pink dress and a pink ribbon for my hair. In a
few days out she comes with a beautiful pink dress just my size and a pink
dress dress for her little girl. It was such a pretty pink all gathered
and lace trimmed. When she put it on me I felt like a princess I just kept
touching it and looking at the beautiful pink you see Id
never had pink before even my dolls came dressed in blue. Lucille wore
pink and her dolls were always pink how beautiful I felt in my pink dress.
I will never forget this lady who made and gave me this pink dress.
My favorite velvet hat
Now it was time to wear winter coats and
hats so my father took Lucille and I shopping. for winter coats as
he knew what looked best on us and he enjoyed shopping. For each of us he
got plaid wool coats with velvet trim Lucilles had red velvet trim as she
had brown eyes, dark hair for me he bought a brown and tan
wool plaid coat with brown plaid trim. I was blond and brown was a
color for blonds. He looked over the table at velvet dresses, hats, and saw
a brown and tan velvet with a trim all around it. It just fit me I
looked in the store mirror and I dearly loved it I said oh papa can I keep
it for my very own? Of course its all yours. Well we were fitted with new shoes
. We both wanted brown ones for dress and for church. We came home to mother
to show her our new clothes. As mother hung up the new clothes Lucille threw her
new hat the one she begged father to get her and went into a tantrum and wanted
my new velvet hat I said no father said no. Well that ended that but when
Saturday came and our new hats came out of the closet Lucille grabbed my
pretty brown velvet hat put it on and off to church we went. No use for father
to intervene. Mother would side in with Lucille. Lucille would go into a tantrum
until she got what she wanted. So that was the end of my new pretty hat.
One thing I will say is its better to be the younger daughter
as no matter if you are still a small child and the older one you
are expected to grow up fast, take the spankings of the younger one. One
should never show partiality between their children or give in to their
tantrums.
Stork and New Baby
One day grandma came to visit. and she asked me
about my new rag doll she made for me that Christmas. I told her I liked the
doll. She then said would you like a real live doll, a baby brother or
sister. I was real excited then. I was three years old she said I will put a
little sugar in the window sill so the stork will see it. If he loves sugar he
will bring a little brother or sister. I said hurry Grandma I want a
baby sister well in a couple of days I woke up one morning I could hear a
baby crying I was told I could see my little sister Lucille. She loved to
cry she was so little. I was so happy to have a sister. Somehow when a baby came
Grandma was there. to put a spoonful of sugar in the window. It always
worked.
as a brother and a little sister after that. We all lived but one
day when I was 14 years old a little surprise baby came he died a couple
of hours later. Mothers had tumors and had to be operated on. Mother was a
beautiful lady and grandma was always at our house to nurse and care
for any of us.
The mumps
One morning I woke up I tried to talk but my jaws
were so swelled out and I could not speak I caught the mumps and both my
cheeks were swelled out. I looked like a balloon .We has 5 children all came
down with the mumps at once. Poor mother she had some flannel diapers so
she warmed one for each of us. and tied them around our heads the heat helped
the pain. It so happened Uncle Ivyl and Aunt Bertha were visiting
us and my uncle loved to tease us sometime he went too far .
We came down for breakfast we were hungry but no one could open
their mouths to eat so we drank out of straws. Uncle Ivyl thought it was
funny as he pulled out a silver dollar shined it up and said
anyone that will eat one of the sour pickles could have the
dollar. They all tried as he held up the pickle to them. The vinegar
only hurt with pain. I still didnt like him because of my baby
pig. I didnt care if it hurt me .I cut up the pickle pushed it into my
mouth tears came down my cheeks but I was determined
to get the dollar to show him. I had enough and I did eat it
all it took time but I grabbed the dollar and Bell came upstairs with warm
water and a straw to wash the vinegar out. Well what happened was 10 days later
Uncle Ivyl came down with the mumps
Easter Sunday
Those days Easter was the beginning of nice weather
ahead summer was on the way. Families went to church some came that day
especially to dress up. Father loved nice clothes he and mother came home with
white dresses for us three girls they were laced trimmed and satin ribbons
around the waist. And we had lovely new lace petticoats., white stockings,
and slippers/ We each had new hats of straw with chiffon all around them.
and pretty flower trimmed. My brothers wore new suits and hats and
shiny new oxfords. I wish you could have seen my mother all dressed in
white and white shoes. Father wore a cream colored suit with two tone oxfords
with his gold watch chain holding his watch across the front. He had just bought
a brand new automobile shiny black with red wheels to ride to our church. We
attended church set in our usual seat where the parishoners set with their
families. It was such a beautiful day, warm, sunny and father said lets go for a
ride before going home. We started out, after awhile it began to thunder and
lightening flashed across the sky. Father jumped out and tried to put up the top
and the leather side curtains on. But it came down in torrents we were so wet.
We had just started home and we were soaked to the skin. Our hats were
limp and ruined the starched dress just hung like a mop. Our curls were
gone water dripping off all of us. Poor father opened the kitchen door
told us to strip off, and we girls cried and cried to lose our
pretty hats. We threw all our hats away. The clothes we could wash. Instead of
getting angry my father said lets have our Easter dinner. He told us girls we
would all have new hats. After that he kept the top up on our car for a
new Essex with a hard top and windows that opened and closed.
Train Trip
The years I spent in Iowa was the happiest time I loved
my home my parents and the visits to my grandmas and to Perry Iowa to see
my Aunt Mollie. This was the summer of 1917 and I did not want to leave
Des Moines and go west to Seattle,Washington. I wanted only to stay in
Iowa. My new husband a contractor from Seattle would talk to my
parents and I telling us how the climate was never cold like Iowa.
He said the grass was green all year he said roses were in bloom even in winter.
While in Iowa the blizzards came each winter tornados in summer,
with thunder and lightening. Out in Seattle when it rained there was no
thunder even then I would be happier in Iowa. Axel had finished the building of
the Ford Building in Des Moines. We were leaving for Seattle. We left by train
the Chicago Milwaukee train direct to Seattle. For some it would have been
a thrill to me at 19 I was scared and as I looked back at my fathers and
mothers faces and my little sister Mildred how could I get on this train and go
clear across the world. my tears I held back the conductors said all aboard and
I was lifted up over the steps of the pain and it began to move. We were ushered
into a car with the beds all made up. I crawled into the lower bunk. The train
started and was going faster. I had never been farther than 30 miles
across the state of Iowa prairie. I had rode in buggies across Iowa. Next
morning early the porter began clearing the beds in making
seats for passengers to sit on the trip. Seats sat straight up, red velvet
covered coaches were very narrow. The porter started a fire in a coal range in
our car. And we took turns making our breakfast. As bacon began frying, coffee
boiling it smelled so good. We had brought cereal, bacon, and we could purchase
milk and eggs from the porter. The engine had a large smokestack. The only way
it would run was to shovel coal constantly the black smoke poured into the
coaches through the whole trip. To make the 2000 mile trip would take 10 days
the train creeped along. we had left the 20th of Dec got thru the
Dakotas finally here was Montana and the Rocky Mountains. It was snowing
constantly as we began to descend up the mountains the train would back
down ice was on the tracks we got somewhere in the mountains and snow
slides came down one time we were partially buried in snow
large boulders rolled onto our tracks the men were ordered to
shovel the deep snow down the mountain one boulder I remember
was so happy every man shoved and pushed for hours it seemed
to free the tracks. We had to go through the Rockies before the
next big blizzard. Our coaches grew so cold. We all rolled up in blankets.
And we all prayed we would get through the mountains safely. We did make it
there finely and entered into Spokane. Wa. Now I knew it would be
green grass and beautiful roses no more snow.What I did
not know was the Cascades ahead. Leaving Spokane we had
to go across a high rail way bridge in the air with only iron
bars holding it up. No sides on the track I felt sick fear
everywhere people were crying for fear ice was on track. We moved so
slow but we made it across. Oh how I wished I were back in Iowa. Snow
slides were constant in the pass. Men on the train worked constantly on the
tracks. I began to wonder why my husband could talk of roses and green
grass. After awhile we got through the Cascades only to enter a long
tunnel as we passed through the black smoke as it poured into the coaches.
It chocked all of us. Our eyes burned and our lungs were heavy. We coughed clear
to Seattle. As we looked at each other we were stunned our faces were pitch
black. Before we left the train we used soap. But the black soot would not come
off. In the depot we all bought soot removal I scrubbed as hard as I could. It
took over a week to wash it all off. My new winter coat and clothes were
ruined. I then saw green grass and roses in bloom It was raining but no
thunder and lightening. I loved most the cold clear
water to drink. Iowa had warm water in faucetts. Fresh salmon and oysters how
good they tasted, Now we have electric engines, snowsleds, and dining cars. How
much Elaine and I enjoyed these trips on vacation time
together on the Empire Builder Train. It left Everett across Idaho, Montana,
Dakota, and to Minnesota. There we changed to ride a bus to Iowa.
Introduction To Seattle
I met a Mrs Hayworth who was like a mother to a scared
little farm girl I saw nothing but Scandinavians in Seattle. I hated them
as I wanted to be with Americans. Mrs Hayworth took me in as a friend and like a
sister. We were both pregnant but didnt tell each other. We had our babies
the same week. She wanted a boy and I wanted a girl. She got the girl and I got
the boy. I wouldnt trade my boy for 10 girls after I saw this beautiful baby
who never cried. Her baby cried night and day. She named her Gertrude. Mr
Hayworth was a Marine Sergeant. He dressed in Navy Blue, gold stripes, and
worked in a recruiters office. After the war years he became a barber.
They were strong Catholics. After awhile we lived in Lynden,Wa where Axel helped
built the Chicken noodle factory. It was a Dutch and English town. We were
treated royally. We had a upstairs apt with the lady who owned the dept store
there. The banker next door was with us all the time. Gifts were given us from
everywhere. We were invited out to dinner after dinner. I loved these nice
people. It has taken me years to get over my homesickness. I am a Iowan in my
heart.
The Terrible Flu of 1918
I was living in Seattle Washington in 1918. I was
a mother to my new son Arthur Donald. At this time WW1 was going on in Europe.
Young men were being trained in miltary. The shipyards in Seattle were busy
building ships along the piers of Seattle. Suddenly without warning a strange
sickness hit all of the northwest. I could see a cemetery in the distance from
where I lived and every day I heard the trumpets blowing their last
fairwell to the young men falling dead. Hundreds of young men died
like this. My neighbors a Scandinavian couple owned a nice home and had just
adopted a baby boy as they could not have children. We visited back and forth,
laughed together because she was so happy to have this little baby at
last. Next day she and her husband and baby were all dead. The flu killed
them. Axel my husband was struck down in bed. I called the Norweigan doctor and
he came right out. The doctors face was covered by a mask. He gave each of us
medicine and he brought bottles of brandy with him. He boiled some water and
poured some brandy in it. He stayed and treated Axel. I took the medicine but
refused the brandy. Somehow we got through this. The doctor supplied us with
face masks and we were told to stay indoors and out of stores. We were told to
let no one in our house. We were told everyone was a germ carrier.
Whole families died doctors could not carry the load. Brandy was being sold to
only doctors. Where the sickness came from is a total mystery. The flu today is
milder as the 1918 flu killed.
My mother at this part of her story doesnt write
about her marriage to Axel and his death. She lived in a large boarding house.
They had many young Norweigan fishermen who lived upstairs. They spoke English
with thick accents. They were all kind to Axel myself and the two little ones.
At Christmas a huge tree was up. The women of Norway Lodge made a huge
Smoregesboard. Axel played the accordian It was a wonderful
Christmas One day when mom was pregnant with Doris a beautiful one woman came to
her door with a suitcase in hand. She spoke Norwegian and just a little English.
She said her name was Anna Weekan. She was engaged to a Axel Blackrud and he was
too send for her. When he didnt she came on her own. She started to cry
when she found out Axel was married. My mom felt sorry for her and asked her to
stay. She was a wonderful friend to my mom. She married a Norweigan
fishermen.. Shortly after Axel had a fall down a elevator shaft. He developed a
goiter in the throat He told my mom the night before his surgery he was
talking to his deceased mom and dad. Mom took this as a bad omen and begged him
not to have the surgery. He died the next day on the surgery table. It was
Jan 1922. Doris was 2 and Donald was 4.Mom was devastated. She was mad at her
dad because of the wedding to Axel so she didnt ask for help from him or
notify him of Axels death. She said Axels sister Ragna removed Axels things. She
did not speak to mom. Mom got very sick with a infected mastoid and was put in
the hospital and had a high fever and was delierous. The two little ones the
Norweigans cared for while she was so sick. Finally her dads address
was found and he came right out. She refused any help from her dad. The
Catholic sisters felt a warmer climate would help her. So they boarded a train
to Los Angeles. She loved the warm weather and the beautiful flowers in the
convent she was staying. They took her by boat to see San Jaun Capistrano. She
watched Silent films being filmed. She made up with her dad and said he
was looking out for her.
She was the daughter of US Grant Van Horn born 17 July
1863 in Elkhart Iowa. Her mother was Nevada Sophia Hardenbrook born 13 Oct 1876
in Minburn, Dallas Co Iowa She died March 1955 in Des Moines. Her dad died 1 Oct
1942. Her Van Horns came to Iowa in 1854. John Van Horn and Eunice Hudson were
her paternal grandparents. Her maternal grandparents were John Huse Hardenbrook
a civil war vet and Philinda Katherine Montgomery. They married in
Madison,Ind and came by covered wagons in 1870.They settled in Minburn. In 1907
they moved to Linden, Iowa.
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