[116]Dukes, Charles
Funeral Services for Charles Dukes, age 76 of Bedford who died
Thursday, August 10, 2006 at his home in Bedford were held Monday,
August 14, 2006 at 10:30 a.m. at the United Methodist Church in
Bedford. Interment was held in the Fairview Cemetery in Bedford. In
lieu of flowers the family requests memorials be directed to the
following: Bedford United Methodist Church, Taylor County Museum
or the American Cancer Society. Please leave a message of tribute to
the Dukes family on our web page, www.ritchiefuneralhome.com under
Obituaries. Arrangements were entrusted to the Ritchie Funeral Home
of Bedford.
Charles Dukes, the son of Ora and Chloe Dukes, was born on
December 27, 1929, at the Dukes farm home near Sheridan, MO.
Surrounded by his family, he died at home in Bedford on August 10,
2006.
Charles attended a rural school in Worth County, MO, graduated from
high school at Sheridan in 1947, and worked with his father after
graduation in learning the skills of carpentering. He was drafted into
the U.S. Army in January, 1951, and served in Korea until late 1952.
He married Louise Wintermute in January, 1953, and moved to the
farm east of Bedford where they lived for 42 years. Charles farmed not
only to make a living, but because he liked to watch the progress of the
corn and bean crops from spring planting to harvest. He liked the
Sunday evening drives to the South 80 to check on the cattle, and the
smell of new-mown hay. He liked the challenge of conserving the soil,
and the satisfaction of improving his farming efficiency. He liked
working with his neighbors, sharing great stories, and good-natured
teasing. He was a quiet, unassuming man of few, but inspiring words
and a great sense of humor.
Between the seasons of planting and harvest on the farm Charles did
carpentering, including building several homes in Bedford. He liked
working with wood whether it was in restoring the Taylor County
Round Barn, building a scale-model doll house, a rocking horse for a
grandchild, or the wood case for his next stained glass clock project.
He was an enthusiastic supporter of Bedford, and helped with many
community projects, including the building of the Red Barn at the
fairgrounds, helping organize the Fourth of July parades and restoring
artifacts or mowing the lawn at the Taylor County Museum where he
was chairman of the board in recent years. He was a member of the
Bedford Community School Board at the time of reorganization (1959-
1964), served on the Taylor County ASCS committee (1981-1990) and
was an active member of the Bedford Lions Club.
He was a member of the Brethren Church near Sheridan until 1953
when he joined the United Methodist Church in Bedford. He served on
many church committees over the years and helped with a number of
building and repair jobs at the church, including the building of the
United Methodist parsonage. He lived his faith, loving God, his
family, and his neighbors as himself.
Charles loved to travel, and had visited 49 of the 50 states (he missed
South Carolina.). He and Louise rode a ship through the Panama
Canal, landed in a helicopter on a glacier in Alaska, saw the fireworks
display from a gondola on the Grand Canal in Venice, picnicked in the
Alps, saw Buckingham Palace and the Changing of the Guard in
London, attended Mardi Gras festivities in Vera Cruz, Mexico, went
salmon fishing off the Oregon coast, camped in many parks in the
United States and Canada, revisited South Korea and noted the
amazing transformation from its wartime appearance and walked the
beaches of the Gulf of Mexico and the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans.
They spent seven fun-filled winters in Tucson, AZ.
Among his pleasures were holding a new-born grandchild or "great",
bouncing a squealing toddler on his foot, playing a game of pool or
golf with grandchildren, sharing conversations about the progress of
the crop or the report of the most recent rains with family and friends;
these were his great joys. He loved life and lived it to the fullest in spite
of the limitations posed by the cancer which ravaged his body over the
last year. He could have said, "I have fought the good fight, I have
finished the race, I have kept the faith". (2 Timothy: 7)
Frank Meysman says of Dad, "Great men have some commonalities:
they are often tall and handsome, they have an all-spotting eye and
mind. They are scarce on words, but when they talk they are listened
to. But above all, they have CHARACTER. One of these characters is
DAD. He felt as comfortable and looked as handsome in his blue
overalls as in his Sunday suit. Although no longer alive, he is not dead,
because you're only dead when they forget. I'll never forget."
Included in the family who survive him are Louise, his wife for 53
years, three children and their spouses: David (Pat) Dukes, Bedford;
Mary Jane (Dr. Terry) Sprague, Audubon, IA; Martha (Doug)
Standerwick, Mountain Lake, MN; eight grandchildren: Elaina (James)
Johnson, Gravity, IA; Troy (Erin ) Dukes, Roland, IA; Katy (Dustin)
Longfellow, Woodlawn, TN; Kristen (Jon) Lucas, Rockport, MO;
Steven Sprague, Whitney, TX; Justin Sprague, Fort Sam Houston, TX;
Nathan Dukes, Rachel Dukes, Mountain Lake, MN; eight great
grandsons: Zachary , Alex and Bradley Johnson, Mason and Quinton
Dukes, Ethan, Caleb and Ryan Lucas. Another great grandchild is
expected next month. AFS son Frank Meysman (Leen) and their
children Tom and Ann, Merchtem, Belgium are also a part of the
surviving family. Siblings who survive are Harold Dukes (Gerry),
Lebanon, OR and Glenn (Donna) Dukes, Phoenix, AZ; and Helen
(George) Guhl, Vallejo, CA. Also surviving are many sisters-in-law,
brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews and friends. Preceding him in death
were his parents and two brothers, Lowell Dukes and Wilber Dukes.
May God grant comfort and strength to those who mourn his passing.
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